Is there a good Step Parent website for chatting and forums?

I think it would be nice to find a dependable site for support and understanding. It's not easy being a Step Parent and anyone who is one out there knows it. An extended family can be really hard to deal with. I can't afford a shrink to help me everyday with all the problems that arise and it would help to know how to make the kids feel better because they are starting to realize that they have two homes and one of them is ashamed of it and actually lied about having one in school. For the first quarter the teacher thought that my husband and her were having a wonderful life and marraige together. (My husband was the one to find this out and he had no idea what to say but..."we were never married and we've been apart since the kids were 1 year old." Could you imagine the teachers shock!